Everyone around you and me have wants and in some cases needs out of life. Some of these can end up being goals that are set and are expected to achieve and thrive. Just like grades in school you may not always reach every single little goal that’s set. That’s why you have to look at the bigger picture in life and the more important goals and work the hardest to surpass these goals. Sometimes what people want out of life is out of their control in which case it is very important to have more that one want out of life. For me personally three things I want before this short-lived imperfect life ends are stability, wisdom and love (I don’ want to be loved, but rather I want to love others (not in a romantic way. This may also include caring for the poor and treating equal the discriminated.)
As previously stated, there are many characteristics and other values that one cannot control and two of three values I listed are not in my control. So why did I choose what I did? The overall idea and perspective I have on my life is I am here to serve and help others. I am not here to get all I can get for MYSELF. Although at times I know I will benefit from helping and “loving” others like getting joy and happiness from it or occasionally getting payed or rewarded, that is not why I do it, which brings me to my first point. The first thing I want in life is stability. What I mean by this is I want to be a stable person with a stable job and a stable financial position. I do not want to live in fear and anxiety as this will lead me away from my overall “point” in life. My second value I want in life is wisdom. If I am a wise person I would be able help people with complicated problems that the normal person may not be able to solve. Everybody can benefit from such a goal as having wisdom. The final goal I have for myself is I want to love during my lifetime. I want to be known as the “gentle beast” (because of my height) and I want to do as much volunteer work for other people as I possibly can. I realize I am only one person and I also know I will fail to get and/or do the above at times.
(What is your backup plan?)